He just likes sex! Through high school and college he kept track of the "notches on his belt" but a few decades later the women are just a hazy stream of one night stands. Sex is for bonding. Sex is for communing with spirit and with each other and sensing our place in the whole of creation. Sexual addiction has been called many other things: compulsive sexual behavior, hypersexuality, or sexual impulsivity. Leila speaks for millions of women and men who dimly sense the need to make a deep shift in the way we view sex, love, and intimacy.